When I started my company over 2 years ago it was with the intention to create new and alternative spaces for queer men. Then Covid hit. Since beginning, I have worked with dozens of men in private 1:1 formats, & while I will continue to work in this way, I am excited to finally offer my work in a group setting.
So many of us over the last decade, have shed the constrictions of sex equaling the possibility of death. From that great constriction, has been an extraordinary expansion of sexual freedom that has been like feeding a famine, that at times has felt unquenchable. Some of us, still feel safest in the shadows of anonymous sex, while others celebrate their sexual liberation on the dance floor. You may have seen me there, and you will continue to, because these unique spaces have created a much needed watering hole for us to come together: celebrate, be seen, express, cry, dance and find love. Hookups and casual encounters have often been a huge part of our expression of sexual liberation. That freedom we often bypass as something very precious - the ability to find intimacy in connected sexuality. While honoring our lineage and honoring theses spaces that have held us so tightly, I'd like to invite you to create something new for all gay men with me as your guide.
This is my invitation:
For the first time, I am offering a non-residential three-day experience, designed to give men (gay, queer, bi-sexual, and trans men) the opportunity to connect with the deeper centers of pleasure in their own bodies. Through movement, sound, breathing and touch, men can access and sustain full-body erotic pleasure with themselves and/or with a partner. This workshop invites each man into an exploration of all the varied states of erotic energy through playful, fun, safe and sacred spaces. It's in this embodied space that supports men to find their own way into a deeper relationship with their emotions and their desires. This is an invitation to think past the patterns of gay sexuality. You have the opportunity to share in a non judgmental space your experiences as a gay man in this evolving culture of gay acceptance and non acceptance. We will process how being alive in this time has shaped our relationship to our bodies and our sexuality. After our weekend together we will learn how to give and receive through a sacred, intimate and even playful lens. There will be opportunities for trauma release and exploring the concept of full body orgasm. All of this in an atmosphere that supports each man to explore his own vulnerability and capacity for pleasure.
Join me, alongside some extraordinary teachers, to discover more about your body's capacity for pleasure, what it means to be in conscious community, and how to call the erotic into all aspects of your life.
If you are interested in learning more and applying for your place in this great experience --- please email me for an introductory conversation.
Space is limited due to the intimate nature of this work. Vaccination and/or PCR testing required. All federal and state guidelines on COVID will be followed.
1. Restructuring the Male Erotic Paradigm: The Art of Receiving
-This demo will focus on how men can receive full body touch and pleasure and will explore full body arousal without climax.
2. Exploring Your Erotic Potential
-Understanding Pleasure Loops and Pleasure Ceilings
Ritual and Ceremony are parts of our every day lives, from preparing our first cup of coffee in the morning to celebrating graduation day. In this workshop we will explore ceremony and ritual as pathways to deepen connection, contextualize intimacy, and create a safe enough space share.
Before Each touch activation, Court will lead the group in discussions affecting male erotic behavior:
Studying Tantra for the last 4 years & receiving his Sex Counselor training with Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, Finn brings to his work a union between the esoteric mysteries of eroticism & the evidenced-based traditions in modern research.
Finn guides GBTQ men to usher in their most confident, authentic selves.
Learn new techniques and gain communication skills to give and receive erotic and sensual touch.
Learn practices to connect with your partner through eye gazing, sound, and breath.
Explore new ways of creating erotic invitations with intention and context.
Explore dynamics of Power (Dominance and Submission) through energy exchange, language, and bondage.
Feel into the experience of sharing erotic energy with a group of other conscious men.
Explore the range of sensations and discover new paths to pleasure in a safe enough container.
FRIDAY, March 4
We invite all participants to join us Friday evening between 6:30 and 10PM. The evening will allow you the opportunity to get to know the other men in the group. We will be coming together to create our circle and set our collective agreements for the weekend. We will close out the evening with a clearing ritual followed by some group reflections.
SATURDAY, March 5
The morning sessions and discussions will explore receiving gifts, touch, and invitations with gratitude, while honoring curiosity and boundaries. We will finish the day with discussions and activities that include giving and receiving touch. You are invited to participate or simply witness.
9:30-10:00AM: Doors Open/ Arrivals (Coffee and light refreshments will be served)
SUNDAY, March 6
Court will demonstrate ways to incorporate power dynamics into play using language, energetics, and rope. Following the demonstration you will have the opportunity to partner with someone and practice together. In the afternoon session you will learn ways to connect through Tantric breath, sound, and eye gazing. We will end the weekend with a live demonstration of Sexological Bodywork so you can visualize and feel what is possible for you in receiving this type of bodywork.
9:30-10:00AM: Doors Open/ Arrivals
*Schedule and schedule of events subject to change.
*To apply for a spot --- please email me firstname.lastname@example.org for an exploratory call and interview*